How
CILS Make a Difference
By Timothy Redd
When I first started working at the Memphis Center for Independent Living it was a complete shift from my previous work experience. At first I had a challenging time understanding the independent living philosophy. I felt like I was not the most effective independent living specialist and that I was not making a difference. I expected that all my consumers would make and accomplish their goals and that would make me successful as an ILS. I felt deflated when I had to close cases and my consumers just checked out altogether. I pondered how CILs make a difference.
When I first started working at the Memphis Center for Independent Living it was a complete shift from my previous work experience. At first I had a challenging time understanding the independent living philosophy. I felt like I was not the most effective independent living specialist and that I was not making a difference. I expected that all my consumers would make and accomplish their goals and that would make me successful as an ILS. I felt deflated when I had to close cases and my consumers just checked out altogether. I pondered how CILs make a difference.
Today
I am convinced that CILs are vital and necessary more than ever.
Our core services are information referral,
advocacy, independent living skills and transition to community for people living
in institutions and young people transitioning to adult life. I have seen these
services help people gain greater independence and they have helped me as well.
Advocacy
When I heard about ADAPT I was absolutely hell
bent and convinced that I did not want to go on a national action. After a good
deal of arm wrangling, not literally and Tim Wheat’s and Allison Donald’s
convincing; I went to DC and took part in the 2017 Spring Action.
I met so many people with disabilities filled with
passion for equality it humbling and affirming. I made new friends and met
Maxine Waters, one of my political heroes. By the time I made it back to
Memphis I dog tired but really wowed by the experience and it’s something that
I will never forget.
After days of action the Affordable Care Act was
not repealed. That is when I understood the power of advocacy. These days I’m
quick to speak out against things that violate the ADA.
Last month I went to my gym and I noticed some new
machines that were blocking the aisle making it impossible for me to through.
Immediately I spoke to the director letting him know that the gym was now
inaccessible and in violation of the ADA because the machines took away
clearance need for a wheelchair. They were relocated.
Independent
Living Skills & Information Referral
I am a consumer here and I set a goal to learn to
drive. I was referred to TN Vocational Rehabilitation Services and assigned a
counselor. My goal was to learn to drive.
On February 5th 2018 I attained my driver’s license and I
have acquired a new independent skill.
Transitions
to the Community
Last year I became a part of the peer-to-peer
program where I worked as mentor for Nursing Home Transition consumers. Bobbie Fields and I have met a great deal of
people in nursing homes and seen firsthand some of the less than desirable
conditions and how people have been stripped of their independence.
A few months ago we began working an 80 plus year-old
senior and just last month she moved into her own apartment. We accompanied
here to the store to pick out her furniture for her new place. She was so happy about beginning this new
chapter of life and what sticks with me most about that day is her smile and
sheer joy.
Many times people with disabilities are relegated to
expensive nursing homes because they need homemaker services or additional medical
care. Today thanks to direct service workers in home care is possible and it
helps people live in the community maintaining freedom. Nursing homes to me are
nothing me than pretty prisons and I would hate to send a love one there and I
hope I never find myself in one.
Accessible
Computer Lab
We live in a digital age. The computer has become
so much more than a tool to publish documents. We communicate with others, pay
bills, connect the global world through social media, and pay bills and shops.
I have seen numerous consumers go from not having computer skills to coming in
showing off their first purchased laptops.
The truth is that are many barriers that people
with disabilities unknowingly to the mainstream society. When a person has
newly acquired their disability they are often in denial, angry, afraid,
scared, depressed, and left wondering what kind of life can they still have?
MCIL is a place of affirmation that says just
because your body works different you are normal and a person first. Dealing
with stigmas associated with disabilities is hard, being a part of a like community
of peers is empowering.
The services offered at MCIL are critical when it
comes to independent living, especially when our community is not regarded as
vital in the scope of mainstream society and so easily is disregarded and falls
through the cracks. I have shared how the Memphis Center for Independent Living
has helped others and myself reach greater independence. We are here to support
you on your path to independence.